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Dear Soldier….

Dear Soldier,

How do you begin a letter of gratitude to a person you’ve never met but whose decisions have provided the very way of life you know?

For people who are usually not short on words, we are at a loss for how to do justice to the sacrifice you have made and continue to make daily.

So we begin with a simple…

Thank you.

Those two little words seems too weak a phrase to fully contain the gratitude for your days of service and sacrifice…  Thank you for every holiday you missed away from your family table and for every birthday you celebrated in a hot desert, cold foxhole, or muggy rice field.  Thank you that, though you’ve never seen my face or spent days admiring the sweet baby cheeks of the little ones I call mine, you live your life to allow us the freedom to choose our schools, worship our God, and play safely in backyard tree houses.  Thank you that we can tuck sleepy babies into bed at night knowing that their tomorrow is bright and open to countless opportunities thanks to your tireless days and nights spent thousands of of miles away from your own little ones…. Above all, thank you for doing all of these things because you wanted to and because your passion for this country and our freedoms outweigh all else.

  Thank you for being braver and more selfless than we can even imagine.

Because you do your job so well, it can seem to fly under the radar.  We go about our days confident that our freedoms are safe and that our tomorrow is secure.  You do your job so well that we sometimes forget to send out the massive thank you that it deserves but know that it is never taken for granted.  Our boys stand up a little straighter when they see a soldier – a hero with skin on – pass by on the street and our girls look in awe at the brave women who serve our country in ways not possible 15 years ago.  We tell them about what an honorable decision it is to do what you do and we pray for you to rest in your own beds again soon. We ask God to protect you in every possible way and to love extra on your families back home.

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Dear wives, children, parents, aunts, uncles, friends, and every family member of a solder….

Thank you for YOUR sacrifice… Thank you for allowing and supporting their decision to join the military and serve their country.

Thank you for pulling extra shifts as a ‘single parent’ while they are away and for being joyful for a Skype date on your anniversary instead of a romantic dinner.  Thank you for celebrating holidays late and for moving ten times in twenty-five years of military service.  Thank you for letting a country borrow your husband, wife, son, daughter, friend and for being so willing to accept every way that effects your entire family. Please make sure that your children know that we speak for the thousands of Americans everywhere when we say that their mom or dad is a hero and braver than we can even fathom.

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To our veterans, every bit of this letter is to you as well.  The wars and conflicts you so bravely contended in decades ago make up the history that has shaped our world.  You are part of a generation who we look on with honor and admiration…

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Finally, to every solider, active, retired, reservist….

Thank you that you take this verse to heart and live it out in a way most of us can’t begin to dream.  Thank you, friend, for  every moment of your service and we thank our Father for putting breath in your lungs… Happy Memorial Day.

Greater love has no man than this, that one lays down his life for his friends… John 15:13

Endless blessings and love…

Your Philanthropy Family

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Forgiving Yourself…

Forgiveness is such a process, often a twisty and turny road that can lead us through lots of emotions but, ultimately – and hopefully, lands us somewhere in a peaceful land called Forgiveness.  We commonly focus on the process of forgiving the other party…. the person who wronged us, shorted us, or hurt us in someway.  We pray through not carrying hardness in our heart and trying to get to the point where we can maybe even stand a thought of the offending party without rolling our eyes =)  Once we reach that point in the journey, we can often realize though that there is one last hurdle before we feel we can fully wipe the slate clean -

The part where we forgive ourselves.

There is nothing like the guilt and emotional weight of feeling like you are beyond forgiveness.  You absolutely can not imagine ever moving on and leaving the unfortunate incident in the past and, often, it is often in the moments where we need the all inclusive forgiveness of the Father the most that we are most convinced that it is not ours for the taking.  Maybe it’s the shame of the decision, the weight of the consequences, or simply that we knew better but, no matter the reason, forgiving yourself is truly the last mountain to climb as we journey to that peaceful land called Forgiveness.

Today, we challenge to you picture that “thing”, the “thing” that you have forgiven all others for but that you still carry around like a thirty pound weight, refusing to lay it down.  Now, picture the look of total and complete forgiveness in the eyes of the One who made you and whose death on the cross covered ALL missteps.  Know that the sacrifice made on Calvary was more than enough to cover all missteps – past, present, & future… You can truly never sin SO BIG that forgiveness isn’t yours for the taking.   Breath in the forgiving heart of our Heavenly Father, who knew you before you were even formed in your mothers’ womb and whose love for you is fierce and true,  and choose to forgive yourself once and for all.  Lay that weight down and leave it where it belongs – in the hands of the Father who can handle it.

“The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him…” Daniel 9:9

Together in Him,

Your Philanthropy Family

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The Gift of Grace

Grace.

It’s a word and concept that anyone who has grown in or around church has heard countless times.
It’s so abstract but yet so concrete.
It is pivotal to everything we believe as Christians and a vital element to extend to a hurting world as we attempt to live as Jesus did….
It is also one of those things that I was not expecting to be challenged to explain on a Tuesday morning =)
As you’ve heard us mention countless times, our customers teach us so much on a daily basis and this past week was no different. A precious customer came in looking for a special gift for a dear friend…We looked at several goodies and she settled on a beautiful L&E  jewelry piece with the word “Grace” engraved on it.  As I stood by for her to think and to answer questions, she threw out a question I didn’t see coming.
“What exactly is grace?”
Um. Whoa.  I silently prayed to myself to not screw up an opportunity to explain such a beautiful concept to someone….
I began by sharing that, me to, grace is wholly defined in context of my relationship with Jesus as He is the ultimate giver of grace without bounds… Grace is like an outstretched hand that is continually available to us.  It is a soft place to land in the moments when we need forgiveness and the love and gentleness of a Savior to put our hurting hearts back together.
One struggle I personally have with this gift of grace is battling the idea that it can be earned or, likewise, lost… It’s in the moments when I need to encounter the healing grace of Jesus the most, that I am usually the most convinced it’s not available to me.  I rattle off a list of countless things I’ve done wrong in the past days and convince myself that – yep. The grace of the Father isn’t mine for the taking today.  I’ve failed too big. I’ve fallen too far.
Nothing is farther from the truth friends…
The gift of grace is ours always and has an infinite shelf life.  It is one of the most precious, PRECIOUS gifts that the blood of our Savior bought us on the cross… It can’t be earned and it is NEVER withheld from us as punishment.  Rest in the truth that the grace of Jesus is complete, and full, and ALWAYS yours to encounter.
“My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness…:
2 Corinthians 12:9
Together in Him,
Kristi for the Philanthropy Crew
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Loss for words…

Being at a loss for words is not something that’s common for me.  I’d be embarrassed to tell you how many of my elementary school report cards included some note about excessive talking and I can promise you that I have heard EVERY long-winded joke out there….  My mom likes to remind me often that ”once I started talking I just never stopped”. Um. Thanks mom.

That said, I have found myself in moments of my life where – believe it or not – even I am without words.  They are often those moments where the ache in my heart was so deep that I would have sworn that, had I had opened my mouth, all that I would have been able to utter would have been a sob or seven.  They are the moments when the hurt has simply… knocked me speechless.
I have nothing to say.  The pain has swallowed me and I am tired and knocked on my back.

In those instances, there is one simple word that I know, if I can utter it, that the process of healing will begin… There is one, simple, two syllable name that – if I can force it out of my frightened and worn out soul – will be all it takes to give me the strength to breath for another moment…..
Jesus.
Jesus.
JESUS.

The name above all names.
The lover of my soul and my hiding place.

Jesus.

When I first heard the song below by Natalie Grant I was reminded of those moments of utter speechless despair and the simple truth that, sometimes, all you can do is cry His name. That’s all you have in you…
Those of you with little ones know the desperate speed with which your feet move as soon as you hear one of your babies utter your name in a moment of hurt.

“Mama.”

That’s all it takes and you are where they are in an instant.

Our Father in heaven works the same…
Rest in His Great Name…

Together In Him,

Kristi for the Philanthropy Family

 

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Weary Warriors

Are you ever weary? Do the struggles of everyday life intermingled with the occasional surprise circumstance leave you completely tapped out?  Some seasons take more out of us than others….Some days seem like they are made of 24 hours of struggle and not much rest. On days like those and in seasons where those days seem to be never ending, know that our King is aware that this life would, on occasion, take it all out of us. He knew that there would be moments of complete and utter exhaustion and, in His lovingkindness, He spoke to those days, hours, and seasons over and over again in the Bible.

If the sun rose today on one of those days or seasons of weariness, we pray the verses below bring comfort to a tired heart and begin to resuscitate an exhausted soul. Let the truth of these promises be a balm to your spirit. Meditate on them. Read them aloud.  Write them down and post them on your mirror or by your bed. However you need to, let them soak in.  Your King knew there would be tired days, burned out moments, and weary hearts. He knew and didn’t leave you to figure it out alone…

 

“Come to me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest…” ~ Matt. 11:28

” I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety…” Ps. 4:8

“The Lord replied,”  My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest. ”  Ex. 33:14

“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever…”  Ps. 73:26

” My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him.  He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.”  Psalm 62:1-2 

Together in Him,

Your Philanthropy Family

 

 

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